说缘 Talk About Fate

徐志摩曾不顧當時社會的批判，不理世人世俗的的眼光，囘了梁启超一封信，信中写道
“我將在茫茫人海中尋找我一生靈魂的伴侶，得之，我幸；不得我命，如此而已。”

今夜，我在电脑荧幕前呆了很久，不知该如何把这篇文章写起。你要我给缘分一个答案，我急了，这何其容易?你说你相信缘分，你相信宇宙中的一切事物定理，人与人的聚散都牵连于缘起缘灭。谈缘，我何等能耐？如果缘分皆是上天的安排，以我的慧智，怎能把缘说的明。如你定要我给，恕我一次对上天的冒昧。

茫茫人海中相遇，有的相遇就像大海求爱的瓶中信，难得彼此在辽阔无际的大海碰了一响，可是迅间又得被浪推得好远好远，甚至从此没能再相见。

我们都是从青春走来，不管亲情，友情，爱情，刻骨的伤痛，铭心的感动，你必定经历了许多回。悲欢离合总是缘，你相信缘分一切早已注定，不管你怎样选择。。。我无法完全认同你，在我历经了多少生命里的离离合合或成功与失败。说看透，我没有。顶多能说我只从我走过的生命里悟了自己一套的道理。
如果你一定要从缘分里找到原因，你何不回头沿着时间的隧道再追溯一次。一年前的相遇，四年前的擦身而过。或许听起来夸张不过，但有时候造物者的用心，你何不惊叹，不得我们不深思。

确实的原因我无法给你，但我总会给你一个确定。

“单独”是一个耐寻味的现象。你要发见你的朋友的“真”，你得有与他单独的机会。你要发见你自己的真，你得给你自己一个单独的机会。

这是我为何一直想约你的原因。但我知道你又会问，为何想发现我的真？我笑了，这一次你得问倒了我。我该怎样回答呢？什么样的答案，你才会觉得不浮夸，什么样的回答，你才会动容呢？这一次我不管了，反正多说都是多余的。我想我该对你坦白，不管你欢喜不欢喜。险，我得冒。
我要了解你，因为：

星斑灿烂的夜里，我向往你，
梦里，躲不了你。
每一次抬头，天空竟有你。
歌里，我歌颂的是你。
嫉妒，因你而起，
但不宽容，我讨厌我自己。
我不想我盲目的追求你，
我希望我们永远做我们自己，
但爱你，多少令我失去了自己。
缘分，我们来到了这里，
而故事，我愿听的，永远是你。



Xu Zhi Mo had ignored criticism of society; ignore the secular vision of the world at time. He wrote,
"I will looking my lovely in sea of people, get that is my fortunately; If not, is my destiny. Just as simple as that."

Tonight, I spent a long time facing the computer screen coz I don’t know how to start write this article. You want me to give an answer to fate, I am anxious and no direction at all. You said you believe in fate, you believe that everything related to universe theorem which is playing by “Yuan”.

I always believe that if You want to see that your friend's "true", you have to have the chance with him. You want to see that your own “true”, you have to give yourself in alone. This is the reason why I have always asking you. But I knew that you would ask, why do want to find my “true”? I smile.....coz this time you have to ask me down. How can I answer? What kind of answer, you will feel no exaggeration, and what kind of answer, you prefer to? I think I should be honest to you, whether you are like or not. Risk, I have to take.


Every night, you in mind,
In dream, you always there.
Every time I look above the sky, I thinking of u.

Jealousy, because of you,
But I hate this kind of me.

I hope that we will always be our own,
But love you, more or less I have lost .

Because of fate, we are here,
When I telling story about fate,
I wish
you’ll always there .

Jun6

I Love the Night <我爱夜>

我曾怀念过去那一个夜，如今还是。当那些曲子响在耳边的时候，一个人的夜，依旧美丽。孤独偶尔会寂寞，但我相信你知道，我依旧望着这一片天空。。。朋友突而起来的一句晚安，暖人心房。那怕岁月渐行渐远。。。。<我爱夜>.

I miss those nights in the past , and now I still. When those song sound in the ears , the person's night still peace, still wonderful. Alone may lonely, but I believe you always know, I still looked at the sky. . . Suddenly received a good night greeting from my lovely friend's,my heart warming by your words. Even the times gone by. . . .far and far...Don't worry,my friends.I keep still......
"I love the night".
Jun6